A friend or relative arrives at the doorstep. Maybe they have a beaming smile and are desperate to tell you their exciting news. They might be silent, with tears brimming in their eyes. Or they could look exhausted. Whatever their mood, you’ll likely say, “I’ll put the kettle on!”
Tea Sparks Conversations
On hearing ‘I’ll put the kettle on’, your visitor feels instantly welcome. A few minutes later, they have a warm mug of tea in hand, and everyone relaxes. Tea sparks conversation, and somehow allows us to take time to pause, listen and share. Isn’t it interesting that an exchange over tea is often when we are most present?
Offering tea has long been a kind gesture to guests, and not just in Britain. It is a global gesture of hospitality, which is recognised even where there are language barriers.
In Morocco, it would be the height of rudeness not to pour a glass of green mint tea for visitors, or for them to decline the beverage. In India, each household combines a special blend of masala spices and black tea. If you step into someone’s home, you’ll be offered chai. When the tea is served, the conversation begins.
As such, this simple drink represents togetherness. The time and attention we give to a tea and conversation strengthens our connection with others.
Tea & Talk Event
This concept of connection inspired me to organise a Tea & Talk event in July. I feel that we need to take or create every opportunity to bring people together. It was a delight to collaborate with our guest speakers, Paul Eccentric and Dr Padmesh Gupta, who shared stories and poems on the theme of ‘what we carry’.
Their eloquent readings explored the evolution of fish to humans, life experiences that others don’t believe, and friendships that defy religious, cultural or geographical barriers. It really was tales of the unexpected, and all accompanied by tea and samosas.
The floor was then opened to anyone who wanted to share a story, poem or thought. From considering our legacy in what we do, rather than the possessions we carry, to the shifts in power since we all started carrying devices in our pockets, I was amazed by the diverse interpretations. Let’s just say that powerful and thought-provoking words were spoken.
We were blessed with a warm, sunny evening, allowing conversations, readings, and tea tasting to take place in the garden. This created a relaxed, informal atmosphere. I’m now thinking about other tea and talk collaborations, so if this is something you’d be interested in discussing, get in touch!
We have planned a follow-up event for Friday 21 August. If you enjoy a bit of creativiTEA, you’ll love this! Find out more
Health Benefits of Tea & Conversation
If you think that you don’t have time for a cuppa and chat, let me share the reasons why it makes good sense. Not only is it a lovely opportunity to catch up with friends or meet new people, but it is also great for our health.
Human connections are central to our feeling of belonging. When we make time for social interactions, it lowers our stress levels, builds our resilience, gives us a sense of purpose, and makes us feel well. Equally, tea contains flavonoids, antioxidants and L-theanine, all of which are beneficial to our health and well-being. They boost our immunity, lower blood pressure, and strengthen mental clarity.
So, isn’t it time to enjoy a tea and talk with friends, family, or new connections? Who haven’t you seen for a while? That time shared with others has a positive impact on you and them. Rather than rushing to get on with the next thing, be curious. Ask questions, listen, and be open to another perspective. I truly believe it can be enriching.
